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Dear Diary & Listeners,
You ever just want to pack a bag, grab your dogs, and drive to the furthest possible corner of the map and DEEP exhale into the vast nothingness?
Yeah...Me too.
This is where I am this week.
After returning home from an exhausting work trip; the inevitable happened. 
I got sick. 
And when I say sick, I mean SICK. Influenza A got cha girl in a choke hold.
Bang, Bang.  I hit the ground. 
Today is the first day in almost a week that I am able to get out of bed and do life. 
So that's fun. 
And what better a story to lull myself to sleep tonight...than my own. 
In Episode 16 you'll join me as I cringingly beg Dick to come back home after abandoning me yet again for Las Vegas. Does he come back? Oh- you bet- but as always, I'm sure you'll never guess how this episode ends. 
Buckle your seatbelts. 
Bang, Bang. 
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
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Music: Ashley England
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
Stress has taught me a lot this year. 
I have learned that stress can be both debilitating AND motivating. 
I have learned that no one cares what is going on in your life; they expect you to keep it moving as usual- no matter the price. 
I have learned that while devastatingly debilitating at times; stress can sometimes be invisible to anyone other than yourself. 
 
So what do we do with this information?
 
Well- we learn of course. 
We learn how to manage our stress levels. 
We learn new tools to soften the blow it has on our activities of daily life. 
But we also learn that stress relief is NO ONES job, but our own. 
 
Episode 17 is ALL THE THINGS. 
You're going to hear the raunchy, the sad, the shocking, and of course- the heartbreaking...
So sit tight. 
OH- and if you're not fully prepared to hear some insanely gross sexual content...I would advise you to skip this episode. 
 
Shit's NASTYYYYYY up in here. 
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
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Music: Ashley England
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
While I had hoped the justice system would come through, it fell short, leaving me disappointed.
Did I get the justice I deserved?
Not at all.
My experiences were dismissed, making them seem like lies.
But does it matter in the grand scheme of things?
Also -Nope.
Why?
Because even if the court didn't see it, I know the truth, and now - so do you.
That feels like a win to me.
 
In Episode 18, I'll give you a quick rundown of my messy divorce court saga and share how I celebrated my birthday. Then, get ready for more drama as I spill the beans on the treachery leading up to my first wedding anniversary.
 
Buckle up—it's gonna be a wild ride!
 
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Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda L. Arnier, MLS
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
 
Welcome to the second to LAST episode in MY part of this tragic story. 
 
We've been on a wild ride together. 
 
But you know what...? 
There's no one else I would have rather taken this trip with. 
 
Episode 19 really needs no introduction, but I might as well give you a taste...
 
This is the episode where you find out how my marriage really ended. 
Yep. This is the one. 
 
I won't keep you waiting. 
 
Just please, don't forget.
 
One day, you wake up...and it just doesn't hurt anymore. 
 
I promise. 
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Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
 
We made it! We survived. 
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Even though at times it may have seemed impossible, we are both stronger than we thought. 
 
This episode is the last episode in MY part of this story. 
 
And while I am going to miss sharing my experiences with you weekly, I feel this indescribable weight lifted off my shoulders that it is all FINALLY OVER.. 
 
The next part of The Dichotomy Diaries Season One has one main focus…
To help others share their truth, finally experience closure, and help countless others. 
 
Many times while recording this episode, I caught myself smiling. Stupidly proud of what I have created. Stupidly proud of my own personal growth and accelerated healing. 
 
But most importantly, stupidly proud that the woman I have become- is someone little 7 year old, ruby slipper wearing Amanda would be proud to become. 
 
While sometimes I feel down when reflecting on the path my life has taken; the pride I feel directly relating to my resilience supersedes all of it. 
 
In Episode 20, you will hear how my story ends. You will hear exactly how I uncovered all the other women Dick swindled in almost the exact same way. You will learn who’s interview comes first, as well as who to expect in the upcoming episodes. 
 
There’s No Place Like Home. Especially when you build home within yourself.
Be on the lookout for opportunities to interact with the upcoming guests on Instagram. 
 
Thank you all for your support and hanging in there during this difficult and trying story that was my life. I will be forever grateful and humbled by this extraordinary experience.
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
You are now entering the part of The Dichotomy Diaries I like to refer to as...
THE INTERVIEWS
Everyone you will hear from, from this point forward is someone who had a first hand relationship with the monster that I married. 
What my guests will be sharing will be FACTUAL, raw, and chronological. 
You will also get an opportunity to ask guests of The Dichotomy Diaries questions in between the different parts of their episodes...
Please submit your questions in a DM on @TheDichotomyDiaries Instagram or directly to Email at TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
First up, we have Kyle. A wonderfully warm and chatty gentleman from Phoenix, AZ who saw through Dick's facade faster than most; but played along- because the P L O T was just too juicy. 
Please don't forget to rate, review, share, and comment. Your interactions get The Dichotomy Diaries noticed. Thank you for your continued support as always.
 
VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE!
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: "Kyle"
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
We're back with Kyle for Part Two!
 
I want to extend my greatest gratitude out to Kyle for sharing his story with us. 
 
It was so wonderful to hear from another person with similar experiences. This validates me in my truth and I hope so many more of you in your own. 
 
I know you've waited alllll day. 
 
So here you go. Let's get to it!
 
VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE!
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: "Kyle"
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
Patreon: The Dichotomy Diaries
Merch: The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast Storefront
YouTube: Video Recordings of Episodes!
Podcast Website: www.TheDichotomyDiaries.com
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Facebook: The Dichotomy Diaries
 

Dear Diary & Listeners, 
 
Per your request, I have chosen to break up the interviews with solo update episodes. 
 
Here is a fun update. Well- fun in terms of entertainment I guess. 
 
What you'll hear today had me shook. 
 
Thanks for letting me share and be vulnerable with you. I am forever grateful...
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Lynette Arnier, MLS
 
VIDEO RECORDINGS OF EPISODES ARE HERE!
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: SOLO
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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