Season 1

Dear Diary & Listeners,
You are now entering the part of The Dichotomy Diaries I like to refer to as...
THE INTERVIEWS
Everyone you will hear from, from this point forward is someone who had a first hand relationship with the monster that I married. 
What my guests will be sharing will be FACTUAL, raw, and chronological. 
You will also get an opportunity to ask guests of The Dichotomy Diaries questions in between the different parts of their episodes...
Please submit your questions in a DM on @TheDichotomyDiaries Instagram or directly to Email at TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
First up, we have Kyle. A wonderfully warm and chatty gentleman from Phoenix, AZ who saw through Dick's facade faster than most; but played along- because the P L O T was just too juicy. 
Please don't forget to rate, review, share, and comment. Your interactions get The Dichotomy Diaries noticed. Thank you for your continued support as always.
 
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Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
 
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If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
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Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: "Kyle"
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
We're back with Kyle for Part Two!
 
I want to extend my greatest gratitude out to Kyle for sharing his story with us. 
 
It was so wonderful to hear from another person with similar experiences. This validates me in my truth and I hope so many more of you in your own. 
 
I know you've waited alllll day. 
 
So here you go. Let's get to it!
 
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Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
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Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: "Kyle"
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners, 
 
Per your request, I have chosen to break up the interviews with solo update episodes. 
 
Here is a fun update. Well- fun in terms of entertainment I guess. 
 
What you'll hear today had me shook. 
 
Thanks for letting me share and be vulnerable with you. I am forever grateful...
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Lynette Arnier, MLS
 
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WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: SOLO
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
Today's solar eclipse reminds us of the beauty that can be found in life's uncertainties, prompting a brief ONE WEEK hiatus for The Dichotomy Diaries.
(I KNOWWWWWWW)
I'm grappling with personal challenges, including family matters and financial stress to the MAX.
I feel guilty for deviating from our schedule, trust me.
However, quality remains paramount as we anticipate new global listeners via a very exciting opportunity.
During this brief break, I'll address these challenges and return with content that exceeds expectations.
On a brighter note, our first interviewee, Joanna, will be introduced via social media before her episode goes live with Part One on April 16th and Part Two on April 23rd.
Your patience and support are appreciated as we navigate life's curveballs.
Thank you for understanding.
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda Arnier, MLS
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If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: SOLO
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners, 
In this compelling episode, Amanda sits down with Joanna to delve into her personal journey with a former partner who, coincidentally, they both know.
Joanna candidly shares the story of their meeting, the subtle early signs of manipulation she noticed, and the profound impact it had on her life.
Both Amanda and Joanna hope that by sharing this story, it will provide solace to others and illuminate the realities of narcissistic abuse. They explore the characteristics of women often targeted by narcissists and the manipulative tactics they employ.
From the outset, Joanna's father had reservations about Dick. Yet, Dick managed to maintain a convincing facade, impressing Joanna's family to some extent.
As circumstances would have it, Joanna found herself becoming roommates with Dick, eventually leading to an "exclusive" relationship...or so she thought.
The relationship seemed picture-perfect on social media, providing Joanna with a sense of security. However, this facade crumbled when she began receiving messages about Dick's inappropriate behavior.
Joanna soon recognized that Dick had used his Mormon faith as yet another tool for manipulation.
In addition to this, Joanna discovered some of Dick's unconventional side hustles, one of which even surprised Amanda.
Much like Amanda, Joanna found herself trapped in a trauma bond with Dick, experiencing lies, abandonment, verbal abuse, and coercion firsthand.
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Please give Joanna a follow & support her business!
Personal Instagram: @_joannahans
Business Instagram: @livingbreadbakehouse
TikTok: @joanna.hans
Business Website: https://www.joannahans.com
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: Joanna Hans
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners, 
In this segment of the conversation, Joanna and Amanda delve into the intricate dynamics of Joanna's relationship with her ex-partner, Dick.
They explore Dick's isolated lifestyle, his fixation on fitness and steroid use, as well as his troubling control over Joanna's diet and body image. Furthermore, they shed light on his neglectful behavior as a father to his daughter.
The discussion also touches upon Dick's manipulative tactics, including his skillful redirection during arguments and exploitation of Joanna's talents and creativity.
Joanna bravely shares her profound sense of entrapment and manipulation in the relationship, detailing the emotional and physical abuse she endured. She recounts harrowing experiences, including a violent incident where Dick attempted to suffocate her.
Amidst the darkness, Joanna opens up about her journey to healing and the pivotal role therapy played in her recovery process.
Follow Joanna and support her business ventures through the links below:
Personal Instagram: @_joannahans  Business Instagram: @livingbreadbakehouse  TikTok: @joanna.hans  Business Website: https://www.joannahans.com  
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
Season Two Story Pitch Call
Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: Joanna Hans
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
In this deep and insightful conversation, Rohanna and I explore Rohanna’s multifaceted life experiences, touching on her early life on Whidbey Island, her journey through homeschooling, and her early marriage. Rohanna also shares about her collaborative natural body care business with her mom in the Pacific Northwest, and the beauty of living near the orcas.
The conversation shifts to more personal themes, delving into Rohanna’s past narcissistic relationship with you guessed it....Dick. The revelations of abuse begin to align with the healing power of storytelling as we both reflect on the importance of empathy, accountability, and reciprocity. We candidly discuss the dynamics of different relationships, from familial to romantic, highlighting the lessons learned about safety, trust, and maintaining one’s individuality.
Throughout, Rohanna hopes her openness helps others feel less alone, emphasizing the strength found in shared stories and the support of true friendship- an amazing byproduct of Dick's treacherous ways.
Please give Rohanna a follow and support her business:
https://www.sweetsistersbodycare.com
Business Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sweetsistersbodycare
Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildonefit
 
WE ARE ACTIVELY LOOKING FOR SEASON TWO'S STORY! 
If you or anyone you know has experienced anything similar and is willing to share, please click the link below to schedule a time to chat with me. 
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Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: Rohanna Wildon
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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Dear Diary & Listeners,
In this episode, Kylie opens up about what drove her to be part of The Dichotomy Diaries podcast as we reflect on our shared experiences with relationships.
Join me as Kylie Brocato bravely shares her story about dating Dick, a man with a violent criminal history. What started with attraction and compliments soon turned into a nightmare of verbal abuse, manipulation, and attempts to disrupt her co-parenting relationship.
Despite the chaos, Kylie’s strength shone through, and she ultimately ended the toxic relationship, leading to a much healthier co-parenting dynamic with her ex. We dive deep into the dynamics of Kylie's relationship with Dick, including his neglect of his own children while trying to claim hers, his financial instability and gambling, and his secret life as a sex worker for men!
Kylie’s revelation about being deceived by Dick's false narratives highlights the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing red flags. We also discuss how Dick used location sharing as a control tactic, the financial strain he caused, and his outrageous public behavior.
Join us for a heartfelt and insightful conversation that underscores the importance of resilience, boundaries, and self-awareness in relationships. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes every week! 💖  
 
Forever Speaking My Truth,
Amanda
 
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Email: TheDichotomyDiaries@yahoo.com
Music: Ashley England
Guest: Kylie Brocato
Sound Production: Amanda L. Arnier
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